I wish I knew! From personal experience I have to say I've never come across anyone like the cancer-guy I'm intrigued by at the moment. I have 2 others as close friends too, lovely guys.Usually guys will railroad me into a relationship really quickly (fire signs- yuk) or won't know what the hell they want, want me and no other one minute, then deciding its all too intense the next. Its enough to make a girl crazy!
This cancer-guy seems to like me, he wants to spend time with me and doesn't try to jump me at every opportunity (although we've been there one drunken night I've posted about before). Its nice and he's lovely but its kinda tricky in a way too cos I'm used to guys who want to hang out with me actually being my 'boyfriend' right from the start.
I think I like this dating thing, if it doesn't work out neither of us will have as much to lose as if we jumped right into a relationship.
Cancer men? Yeah I like them.